“With a budget, you can predict your monthly spending habits and plan accordingly to cover your bills while having enough left over for existing debt payments or savings.”
A key focus of my blog is Financial Literacy/Money. Budgeting is a critical component when managing money. While it can sound arduous and restraining to some people, it can actually be a lot of fun and a very powerful tool. The following guest post is entitled, Budgeting 101: Tips for Creating a Realistic Budget.
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Building a budget is the most effective way to manage your finances and prevent overspending. With a budget, you can predict your monthly spending habits and plan accordingly to cover your bills while having enough left over for existing debt payments or savings. Unfortunately, many people don’t budget and spend more than they earn without realizing it. If you’ve ever looked at your bank account and been shocked to see how much you spent in a month, you need a budget that provides you with a clear action plan for spending your money every month. Here are a few tips for creating a realistic budget:
Know Your Monthly Income
Most people know their salaries or how much they earn per hour. However, they don’t look at their pay stubs to determine how much money they bring home after taxes. Your net income is crucial when building a budget because it tells you exactly how much money is deposited into your bank account each month, and knowing exactly what you bring home can help you determine how much money you have on hand.
If you have a W-2 job, finding this information should be easy. You should receive digital or paper pay stubs from your employer for each pay period that tells you your take-home pay. However, taxes aren’t taken from your income if you’re a freelancer or small business owner. Therefore, you may have to do additional math to determine how much you take home after taxes. You can talk to your accountant to determine your tax bracket and self-employment tax based on how much you make during the month.
Add Up Your Expenses
There are two types of expenses: fixed and variable. Your fixed expenses are what you spend money on every month, and the amount you spend doesn’t change. For example, your rent payments will stay the same for 12 months if you’ve signed a one-year lease. In contrast, your variable expenses are the costs that change from month to month, such as credit card payments, utility bills, and groceries.
Determining your fixed expenses is easy because you know exactly how much you spend every month. However, calculating your variable costs is much more challenging, especially if you use multiple credit and debit cards to pay for them. First, review your bank statements to find your variable costs and add them up for 12 months. This value is how much you spend on variable expenses per year. Then, to get your monthly costs, divide that number by 12 to give you an average monthly value.
Allocate
Once you know your monthly expenses, subtract them from your net income to see how much you have left over after paying all your bills. Then, allocate the remaining amount into wants and savings. You can have multiple different goals and accounts to help you separate your funds and send money back and forth between them when necessary. For example, you might have a savings account dedicated to emergencies or funding a large purchase and a retirement account.
Set Goals
When allocating your budget, setting realistic goals for yourself is crucial. First, consider the reason why you want to save money. Maybe you want to purchase a house within the next ten years or go back to school. Or perhaps you want to diversify your portfolio with a precious metals IRA. Whatever the case, you have money goals, and it’s essential to build your budget around them.
Track and Monitor Progress
After creating your budget, you should continue monitoring your progress monthly and determine whether you’re holding yourself accountable. It’s easy to start a reasonable budget and fall behind again, so you should dedicate time every so often to tracking your progress, including your income and expenses, to help you plan.
Tracking your progress can also enable you to re-evaluate your goals. As you get older, your money goals might change. For example, if you decide to start a family, your goals might change from saving money for a new car to saving for a house. As your goals change, you must make changes to your budget and review your spending to ensure your habits won’t get in the way of achieving those goals.
Review Expenses Regularly
When creating a budget, you should understand your expenses and where all your money goes. However, things change over time, so you may get new bills or pay off old debts, which will impact how much money you spend throughout the month. Therefore, plan to review your monthly expenses to determine improvement areas. For example, if you’ve noticed you’ve been spending a lot of money on eating out in the last few months, make a conscious effort to cook at home more often and check back to see how much money you’ve saved over time.
Try to lower any fixed expenses, such as car or payday loans. You can also find more affordable plans for internet and cable or various streaming services to help you save a few bucks every month and instead put that money towards your savings account.
Unfortunately, you can’t eliminate all of your expenses. However, you can make lifestyle changes, such as canceling unused subscriptions and memberships, to help you save more every month.
Increase Your Income
If you can’t reduce your expenses, you can increase your income. The easiest way to earn more money is to ask your boss for a raise. While this can be intimidating, it may also be necessary depending on the cost of living and your skillset. That said, you should only ask for a raise if you know you truly deserve it. Unfortunately, not everyone’s boss will give them a raise, so those individuals may have to search for other employment opportunities or work second jobs to increase their income.
Hold Yourself Accountable
A budget is just a list of numbers; it’s up to you to hold yourself accountable and stick to it. Managing your wants can help you save money over time, so review your bank statements to see if there are any categories where you’re overspending, such as entertainment or nights out on the town. Holding yourself accountable by ensuring you continue to review your budget, bills, and expenses every month will prevent unnecessary overspending while ensuring you can still put some of your paycheck toward saving for the future.
Megan Isola
Megan Isola holds a Bachelor of Science in Hospitality and a minor in Business Marketing from Cal State University Chico. She enjoys going to concerts, trying new restaurants, and hanging out with friends.
A key focus of my blog is Financial Literacy/Money. Maintaining a family can be a challenge financially, but it can be done with deliberate and smart spending. The following contributed post is entitled, Top Tips For Maintaining Your Family On A Budget.
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Home maintenance is likely one of the most significant expenses you’ll encounter throughout your life, whether you’re repairing the damage caused by storms and bad weather or trying to keep up to date with the latest trends and styles.
In fact, a recent report found that, on average, US “households spend $2,335 on home maintenance each year,” which can quickly add up over time. Given the fact that the cost of living is rising in just about every state, it’s important that you’re able to take a more budget-friendly approach to maintenance – which is where this guide comes in.
With that in mind, here are some simple yet cost-effective tips for maintaining your family home!
● Stick to a regular cleaning rota. One of the easiest ways to maintain your dream home is to keep it clean and organized. This is because it stops the build-up of clutter, dust, and contaminants throughout your home, which could cause some serious damage over time. As such, you should try to do some cleaning each day before carrying out a deep clean every few months.
● Don’t ignore the warning signs of major issues. Major home maintenance tasks often start as minor ones, which you may initially disregard. However, this only gives them time to worsen, which often means more extensive (and expensive) repairs are necessary. For example, if your home’s foundation is cracked or damaged, you need to contact companies that install seismic retrofits, as this can help ensure your foundation is up to code. This is particularly important if you live in areas that fall into hurricane zones.
● Seal any gaps in windows or door frames. Small gaps in your windows and door frames could lead to various problems within your home. For example, they could serve as an entryway for pests or simply allow heat to escape, meaning your heating bill increases. Thankfully, this can easily (and cheaply) be remedied using sealants, which can be caught over the counter.
● Avoid microtrends. When carrying out maintenance tasks that change the appearance of your home, such as repainting the walls or installing new features, make sure the changes are something you really love – and that you’ve not fallen for a microtrend that will quickly fall out of style. For example, while some home decor trends, such as minimalism, are likely to stand the test of time, others fade away quickly, and you don’t want to be left with a room that you’ll hate in a couple of months!
● Become a DIY pro. While some duties should be left to the professionals, like plumbers and electricians, there are many other home maintenance tasks that you will be able to handle yourself. However, this may mean that you need to take some time to develop some basic DIY skills to familiarize yourself with the tools you are using and the task at hand. This will ensure you won’t actually cause any damage to your home when trying to fix things. Simply put, the better you get at DIY, the less you’ll have to spend on home maintenance, as it eliminates the need to hire someone to do the tasks for you!
A key focus of my blog is Creating Ecosystems of Success. As a woman, your appearance matters a great deal. Looking good doesn’t mean you have to break the bank though. The following guest post is entitled, Look Fashionable on a Budget: A Guide for Women.
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What you wear can influence your performance. Clothes that fit properly are more comfortable to wear and can help improve your posture, boosting your confidence and productivity. Comfort is key when it comes to clothing as well. It will likely show in how you perform at work if you’re uncomfortable or don’t feel like yourself.
And looking fashionable doesn’t have to mean spending all your hard-earned money on designer clothes. With creativity and an eye for style, you can look fashionable without breaking the bank. This blog post will offer tips and advice to help you find budget-friendly fashion pieces that will make you look stylish without costing too much.
Shop Around For Sales and Discounts
The first step in looking fashionable without breaking the bank is shopping for sales and discounts. Many clothing stores have markdowns at least once a month, so it pays to keep an eye out for these deals.
You can also shop at vintage stores. Vintage stores are a great way to find unique pieces that add style and character to your wardrobe. Vintage clothing can be expensive. But you can still find great deals by shopping around for items in good condition but don’t have recognizable labels. Additionally, many vintage stores have sales throughout the year, so keep an eye out for those.
Shop Online
The pandemic saw many people turn to online shopping for their needs. With a few clicks of the mouse, you can deliver your favorite items to your doorstep. The convenience online shopping offers has made it a popular choice for many.
You can also look for promotions online. For instance, you can check out the items sold through the Furla online shop. Items sold in these shops are usually cheaper and offer additional discounts to customers. Many online shops also offer sales and discounts during major holidays, such as Christmas, Thanksgiving, and Black Friday. Be sure to take advantage of these promotions to save money on your purchases.
But you should also consider the quality of the items you purchase online. It’s essential to do your research and read reviews before making a purchase. This will help ensure that you get the best deal and that you are getting high-quality products.
Finally, always check the return policy of any online shop you buy from. Some shops may not accept returns or only do so in certain conditions. Read the return policy and understand it before making a purchase.
Mix and Match Your Clothes
Another way to look fashionable without breaking the bank is to mix and match your clothes. For example, if you already own a pair of black pants, try pairing them with different tops or jackets to create new looks each time. This works especially well with shirts and blouses since they come in various colors, patterns, and styles.
When you mix and match your clothes, you should pay attention to each item’s fabric, color, and texture. Make sure they go together well and look like they belong in the same outfit. Different prints can make a nice combination as long as they complement each other.
For instance, if you have a floral top, it could be nicely paired with some plaid pants or a striped skirt. If you’re feeling bold, try mixing different textures like velvet and corduroy.
Mixing and matching your clothes can be a fun activity that allows you to express your creativity without spending too much money. Experiment with different combinations until you find something that suits your style.
Invest In Quality Basics
It pays to invest in quality basics like t-shirts, jeans, sweaters, etc., as they can be worn multiple times without showing signs of wear or damage. That said, don’t forget about accessories such as jewelry or scarves, which can instantly transform any outfit into something more stylish.
Investing in quality basics will save you money in the long run, as these items will last longer than cheaper alternatives.
Furthermore, since these items are timeless, you don’t need to worry about them not being in style when the current trend cycles out. Quality basics can be a great way to build your wardrobe and save money.
Finally, make sure to take care of your clothes by following the care instructions found on each item’s label. Storing your clothes properly, washing them in cold water, or even dry-cleaning them will help preserve the quality of each item. It also keeps them looking new for longer.
You can spend some of your money on designer clothes to look fashionable. With creativity and an eye for style, you can look trendy without breaking the bank. Taking the tips in the article into consideration will allow you to create stylish outfits that won’t cost an arm & a leg. It’ll also mean you can rock any fashion trend on any budget.
Two of the focuses of my blog are Financial Literacy/Money and Business/Entrepreneurship. Arguably the most important part of business is its marketing. Even if your advertising budget is small, it’s still a critical arm of your business. The following contributed post is entitled, Top Things To Do with a Small Advertising Budget.
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Many small businesses don’t have a lot of money to spend on marketing. In fact, some business owners try to get by using free methods for promoting their business. However, you don’t have to have a large marketing budget to make an impact. You only need a little bit of money to make a difference, especially when combined with the free techniques that you can use. The first thing that you should do is give your business a marketing budget, even if it’s only a small amount each month. Spending some money on your marketing is better than nothing, especially when you can make the most of your budget.
You don’t need to have a huge marketing budget to make PPC (pay per click) adverts work for you. With only a small daily budget and some effective ads, you can get the exposure and clicks you’re looking for. There are different types of PPC ads for you to consider, including Google Ads and other search engine offerings, as well as social media PPC ad networks. You only pay when someone clicks on your ad, so you won’t be wasting money on impressions that don’t get you anywhere.
Increase Your Social Media Following
Social media can be a great tool to use for organic marketing, and it offers paid advertising tools too. If you want to make the most of your marketing budget, you could focus on growing your social media following. You can do this organically, which can take a while, or you can find tools that will help you to grow your follower numbers more quickly. If you see a detailed review of Kicksta, you can read about how one of these tools might be able to help you. You can start growing your social media followers and receiving more engagement from your fanbase.
Use Email Marketing
While more traditional marketing methods are still useful, they can often be more expensive. Digital marketing is often a better use of a small marketing budget, including email marketing. It gives you a way to reach out to hundreds and thousands of people quickly, and you can easily customize and personalize emails too. Direct mail costs a whole lot more than email marketing does, and it can deliver a better ROI too. So if you’re using the older marketing methods, it might be time to switch to something more modern.
Make the Most Out of Marketing Materials
When you have marketing materials that you’ve paid for, make the most out of them by using them in different ways. You can repurpose different materials to ensure you get plenty of use out of them. For example, a white paper can be turned into a blog post or even a series of emails. Whether you have paid for something to be created or you have spent time creating something, it’s worth making the most of it.
Even if you only have a small advertising budget, you can still find ways to spend it in the most effective way possible.
Note. Like my Compounding Interest and Net Worth pieces, the subject matter of this blog post is not new. It has been known for years by those who’ve learned about it in their families, learned about its concepts in business school, or who have discovered it on their own. It’s a discussion from my personal perspective which I think is worth visiting. In the spirit of the first principle of my blog, Creating Ecosystems of Success, I’m simply introducing a concept and discussing why it’s important for the lay person, so they can make their own life choices.
As described in my piece entitled, I still don’t have a car in 2018, a good friend recommended that I craft something regarding budgeting. That piece described a key budgetary decision I made several years ago to fortify my financial future. In that piece I highlighted several financial vocabulary words which are pertinent to budgeting including: Assets, Cash Flow, Liabilities and Minimalism. In this piece, I’ll get down into the actual ‘nuts and bolts’ of budgeting.
“You know I always stay within my budget, honey,” my Auntie Adeline said to me on numerous occasions throughout our lives. Of my Aunts and Uncles, Auntie Adeline was always the most vigilant about staying within her budget and messing with her budget was literally playing with your life! Mom was also wise with her money and budgeted.
Accounting for Your Dollars and Cents
“You want to account for everything you spend and always keep your receipts son!” Dad was also very particular about his money and was very meticulous about where every dollar went. Though not formally trained in budgeting, I got the sense from many relatives that keeping track of where my dollars went was important. I started budgeting in my mid- to late-twenties though not effectively as I’ll describe later.
Simply put, a budget is a means of numerically accounting for tracking the money you earn and how much you spend every month. As described in earlier pieces, I have considerable experience with Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University (FPU). In it, Dave refers to a budget simply as a ‘Cash Flow Plan’ where you’re telling your money what to do and where to go. I’m going to come back to Dave, but first I’m going to tell you about one of my experiences.
A Tedious Task?
“I don’t keep a budget and I don’t have the patience to do so every month!” These words were typed by someone who’ll remain anonymous in one of my text groups. A regular budgeter now myself, I came very close to challenging his position, but I decided that it wasn’t worth it. From experience it’s not wise to argue with people who have taken staunch positions on things to try to get them to see your point of view. Sometimes it’s best to just let them be and let them figure it out on their own, if at all.
What this person’s comments showed was that while budgeting is important, there’s a negative view of it for some. In fact, in Trish Reske’s article entitled, How Many Americans Use a Budget?, she cites data from a 2017 study by U.S. Bank which found that 41% of Americans said they used a budget while whopping and 59% said they did not. That number was up from data reported by Gallup in 2013 which stated that only 32% of Americans used a budget.
Again, a budget is simply a written plan where you’re telling your money where you want it to go and what to do. You’re looking at what’s coming in and what’s going out and trying to figure out what’s leftover, if anything. What are the two skills you need for this important exercise? You need something we all learned in the first or second grade; the ability to add and subtract. You also need discipline and the abilities to think, and to sit and plan. There are other things you can do to aid in your budgeting process. For example, if you believe purchasing recyclable food packaging will help you save money in the long-term – they can be cleaned out and used multiple times – then you should include this within your strategy.
Simple Addition, Subtraction and Restraint
Okay, get ready for the magic. Specifically, you want to look at your monthly income and subtract your monthly expenses from it. If you’re working a 40-hour work week, this should be relatively simple. If you get paid weekly, you should get four paychecks every month and if you get paid bi-weekly, you’ll get roughly two pay checks a month. The Federal Government has 26 pay periods a year, so there are two months when employees get paid three times. How long is a check good for? Well that depends on how you budget your money.
Your income is your ‘Net Pay’ – your pay after all your deductions and retirement savings have come out – that’s if you’re saving into your retirement which is a different story, and one which Nadine Terman Solstein Capital could potentially help with, if you’re interested in investments. Underneath that number you want to list out your monthly expenses. The difference between your income and your expenses is called your ‘Cash Flow’, and that’s the money you have left to spend in any way you see fit. This sounds straightforward right? Well actually it depends.
Your income is your ‘Net Pay’ – your pay after all your deductions and retirement savings have come out – that’s if you’re saving into your retirement which is a different story. Underneath that number you want to list out your monthly expenses. The difference between your income and your expenses is called your ‘Cash Flow’, and that’s the money you have left to spend in any way you see fit. This sounds straightforward right? Well actually it depends.
Budget Surpluses and Deficits
This is a good place to introduce two new vocabulary words; “Surplus” and “Deficit” – concepts I recall first hearing about from Presidents Bill Clinton, and then later argued about by Al Gore and George W. Bush as they battled for the 2000 Presidency. Financially when you run a Budgetary Surplus, you have money left over once all your expenses and obligations are paid for. This is where you want to be – your expenses being less than your income, and you want them to be as low as possible.
If you’re running a Budgetary Deficit, your expenses are exceeding your income. This is where you don’t want to be. Here you either must: make more money, cut your expenses, or borrow and go into debt to cover your expenses – the worst option of the three.
Of course, if you do end up in debt, it’s important to get out of it as soon as possible – and that is something that you should be able to do fairly easily as long as you approach this in the right way. The best way is usually to use a service that will help you to pay off the debt faster – look into some Jefferson Capital Systems reviews for an example – so that you can get back on your feet as soon as possible.
Second you need to know how much money you have coming in weekly and monthly and I think we all know that. The fun part is figuring out what your expenses are. If you don’t know where to start for your expenses, first think about what Dave Ramsey calls your ‘Four Walls’: clothing, food, shelter and transportation. These are your basics. Think about everything else after these four.
Creatures of Habit
If you’ve been swiping either your credit or debit cards, go to your online banking accounts and see what your averages are. My high school basketball coach always used to tell us that, “We are creatures of habit!” In this case you’ll probably find that there are trends and patterns in your spending – the amount of times you go to Starbucks and what you get there, the restaurants you frequent, the amount of gas you put in your car every week, etc. Some months such as November and December may take you out of your normal spending patterns so be aware of those unusual months or times of the year. The end of the summer is another noticeable time, as people like to take vacations.
Once you see what your averages are, ask yourself if there are ways you can cut back. Can you catch more sales? Can you bring your lunch to work? Do you absolutely need to upgrade your phone or your car along with everyone else? Are there discounts you can take advantage of (being a senior, being military, being a government employee, etc.)? Do you need to make more money at least temporarily to pay off excess debt, for example? These are all questions you should start asking yourself when doing your budget. This brings me to my next point.
If you haven’t been living on a budget, and want to start one, it helps to have goals in mind. Do you want to retire one day? Do you want to become financially free? Do you want to not have to hit your friends and relatives up for cash whenever you get into a jam? These are all questions you should ask yourself. Not having to ask friends and relatives for money ever again is a huge motivator for me.
The Benefits of Budgeting
I described this in my last financial blog post entitled, I still don’t have a car in 2018. There I described how I got rid of my car and held off on getting another one so that I could grow an Emergency Fund and get to the point where I could acquire some investments. I also wanted to make sure I’d have a chance to retire one day.
For at least a year, I thought about what I needed to do to be able to save 15% into my retirement account going forward. When I looked at my budget, I did the math and figured out how much money I’d have to save into my retirement account from my first and second paychecks of the month to consistently do it. I then looked at what I could cut from my expenses and my eyes focused on my Cable bill which, at the time, was a whopping $176 per month.
Think about that. That’s $2,112 per year – money that could’ve been ‘compounding’ somewhere. I finally got to the point where I was willing simply use an antenna signal and just kept my landline and internet access which came to $90 a month – that’s a 50% savings which gave me the extra money to save into my retirement account. It felt strange at first, but it was very necessary, and I was okay watching Star Trek reruns every night.
Three Budgeting Points
I’m going to close with three points from Dave Ramsey because I’ve helped teach Financial Peace University and know it well. The first is the ‘Zero-Based Budget’. The key tenet of this term is, “giving every dollar a name.” That is, if you’ve done your budget and you have money left over, you should assign it a name like “Extra Discretionary Spending” or “Money For The Next Check” – don’t just leave it there because it will get spent on something random.
Consider using cash for at least some of your purchases – “Discretionary Spending” and “Eating Out” for example are two categories I use. Using cash may be scary at first as our world has become digital to the point where we pull out plastic and swipe everything using credit and debit cards. The problem with that is that you don’t ‘feel’ the money leaving your possession and are more likely to spend – businesses know this and bet on it. Using cash helps you feel the transaction, but it’s also the fact that its finite, and it exerts more control over your budget and overall spending.
Lastly, as Dave points out in the budgeting lesson, it takes about three months or so to get into a rhythm to the point where you’re budgeting effectively. The first couple of months aren’t going to be very good, but if you stick in there, eventually you’ll start to roll. Keep in mind your motivation for doing this. And lastly, once you get good at it and you’re able to use the budget to plan over a series of months, you’ll see some really great things happen in your life.
An Important Secret to Budgeting
Perhaps the most important point to make in all of this is that while you’re budgeting and working towards your goal, you must still allow yourself to have some fun. That’s going to vary depending upon you and your lifestyle. Whether it’s concerts, the movies, or if you have a restaurant you like, you can’t completely choke yourself off from pleasurable things because that’s not sustainable long-term – like dieting.
Earlier I briefly mentioned the concept of an Emergency Fund. I must mention this because these things all go together: budgeting, emergency savings, retirement savings, and investments. While this piece is about budgeting, having emergency savings is arguably the most critical component. It protects your budget when life’s inevitable and unforeseen emergencies come crashing into you – some by your doing and some not. Ideally you eventually want three to six months or more saved. How do you build your emergency savings? You budget for it!
Who should budget? Everyone should. There’s a saying out there that you should run your personal finances like a business and when you think about it, each of our households are mini-businesses where some are getting steadily wealthier and others are going further into the hole. If you’re an entrepreneur and have a business idea, or you’ve already started your business, you should have a budget because the control of your capital and expenses are critical. Everyone should do it if even just to avoid paying the banks overdraft fees. According Julia Chang from Forbes, Americans paid $34 Billion to the banks in overdraft fees in 2017, and this is something the banks count on.
Budgetary Nerds and Free Spirits
One last important piece from FPU – maybe the most important. In the budgeting lesson Dave describes both budgetary ‘Nerds’ and ‘Free Spirits’. The former enjoys sitting down with the numbers and doing the budget while the other doesn’t and naturally lives with reckless abandon. I’m absolutely and proudly a Nerd and enjoy going over the numbers, making everything balance and doing the planning. If you’re a Free Spirit this might all seem unnatural for you, at least initially, and you may need someone’s guidance and encouragement. Ultimately, it goes back to your drivers and goals. What are you pushing for and how badly do you want it?
So that’s my take on budgeting. I hope you were able to get something beneficial from this. Again, there many, many financial writers and teachers and FPU is but one. It has worked well for me and I recommend it. However, for you someone else or something else might work better. I also enjoy reading Michelle Singletary’s work for example. No matter who you learn it from though, the principles remain – you want to make smart and wise decisions with your money.
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“Most successful people operate off a healthy fear of failure!”
Three of the principles of my blog are: Creating Ecosystems of Success, Wealth Building and Long-Term Thought. Hell, I’ll also pull in both Creative and Critical Thought. As we’re riding into December of 2018, I’ve wondered what to write next. A friend of mine who runs her own magazine and has her own audience suggested that I write something about budgeting. I do intend to do that, but my mind thought back to something I wrote on the Examiner several years ago which will serve as a nice prelude to budgeting. It involves several important considerations when budgeting, and it might admittedly ‘trigger’ some people, but try to keep in mind the overarching messages.
I originally published a series called, You Still Don’t Have a Car Yet? around 2012. It was inspired by a question from a lady friend who went to my church and whom I briefly dated. We bumped into each other again one Sunday and she was surprised that I still didn’t have a car after getting rid of my old Saturn SL2 which was on its last leg. I heard in her voice that there was more to her question – something I’d experience again in the future.
Now, driving is expensive. It’s by no means cheap to get on the road. You have to undergo a series of driving lessons with a professional to ensure you have a proper license and don’t face issues revolving around Complaint Fraudulent License/ID down the line. When you get a car, it costs. On top of the original outlay, you need to make sure you can afford fuel, maintenance, tax, insurance and more. Upgrading really does require a lot of thought and financial commitment.
It’s a topic that never gets old, and instead of resurrecting and republishing the entire series, I’m simply going to pull out its main points and discuss why I still don’t own a vehicle six years later. Keep in mind that this piece was written from the perspective of a single man (due to life circumstances), and your life may be different. I hope you enjoy it and that it inspires discussion in your own circles. So, let’s dive in.
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My personal finances crashed and hit rock bottom right around 2011 – two years into my federal science career. I started my career with very little savings based upon my educational path and life circumstances. I was still a new homeowner and just paid out my entire $8,500 “Obama Tax Credit” for a condominium project I didn’t know about before closing – the first of many ‘assessments’ over the years which ended up equaling the price of a brand-new car. I also tried my hand in the investing world, at one point trying to do too many things at once, both money- and time-wise. The result was getting into a debt hole of greater than $20,000 on top of my student loan and other bills.
Around that time, I was fortunate that two friends shared Dave Ramsey’s “Financial Peace University (FPU)” with me and over the course of the next five to six years, they invited me to help teach the class with them at our church. I was also fortunate that I met a mentor who ‘adopted’ me into his group of proteges. He was very strong-willed and had a business background. He both taught me and stayed on me about some important aspects of money including: understanding what a ‘Net Worth’ is, saving into my retirement account and getting my ‘Matching Contribution’, and understanding the ‘Law of Compounding Interest’.
Now armed with this new information, it started guiding my decision making. FPU is admittedly just one of many financial programs out there, and it works very well. There are several others, but for the sake of my familiarity with it I’ll discuss it. A major pillar of it is budgeting – numerically think about your ‘needs’ and ‘wants’ with the aim of getting out of debt, building up an ‘Emergency Fund’ and then positioning yourself to stay ‘liquid’, invest, and give. To get a feel for why this important, I’ll once again refer you to back to Ylan Q. Mui’s 2016 article from the Washington Post entitled; The shocking number of Americans who can’t cover a $400 expense.
This is a good place to introduce the concept of ‘Cash Flow’. Cash flow is simply the amount of money you have left over once all your monthly bills and obligations are paid. The greater your expenses and debts are, the less cash flow you’ll have. The less they are, the greater your cashflow will be and the more life choices you’ll have. You’ll probably also have a healthier state of mind and body as financial stress can impact your overall quality of life.
When I looked at my budget in 2012, I sought to identify where I was trying to go in life and then what my needs and wants were. I wanted to live in a place of abundance, and I didn’t ever want to feel the shackles of debt again. I also didn’t want to be in position to have to ask relatives or friends for financial help ever again. Finally, I wanted to go that next step where I had an emergency fund, where I could get some investments, and lastly where I could help others – giving back to my alma maters for example.
While there were quite a few surprises in my condominium complex, it was a smart buy because it was right next to the metro. As such owning a car became less of a priority. Let’s unpack that a little bit. Keep in mind that I’m not telling anyone that they should get rid their car.
For you it might be something else and this would admittedly my approach may not work in cities like: Atlanta, Buffalo and Charlotte. In any case when I looked at my budget, getting rid of my car meant getting rid of: car insurance, gas charges, upkeep and maintenance, having to renew the vehicle’s registration, and any other associated costs. The state of Virginia charges personal property taxes on vehicles for example.
Yes, it was strange at first not having a car in my parking space and not being able to jump in a vehicle and drive off whenever I wanted to. As I describe later though I adjusted. It was a ‘trade off’ as the great Dr. Thomas Sowell says – giving up something in the short-term for what I saw as a greater gain in the long-term. I included the game of Chess in the title because like this, winning that game involves an understanding of the value of the pieces in your army, and in some cases, sacrificing your lesser pieces early on to ultimately win the game.
Let’s move on to some other important concepts. Among the things I learned from Robert T. Kiyosaki’s Rich Dad Poor Dad books were the concepts of ‘Assets’ and ‘Liabilities’. Under Robert’s definitions, assets are things that put money in your pocket every month, while liabilities are things that take money out of your pocket every month.
One of the things he described in his books under liabilities was cars. Was he saying not to buy cars? No, but he was encouraging his readers to look at finances in alternative ways – in this case while cars are symbols of power for some people, they also ultimately take money out of our pockets.
Speaking of which, something that’s been documented in numerous books and which wasn’t explained to me early on was that brand-new cars depreciate significantly as soon as you drive them off the lot. This is something I pondered as I decided to get rid of my car and not immediately get another one. I also realized that I was never really a ‘car guy’ meaning that I never really fantasized or obsessed over them. In fact, I got to a point where saw them as ‘necessary evils’ in a way which were put here to keep us dependent on the energy and auto industries, and at the mercy of those running them.
I’d like to now introduce the concept of ‘Minimalism’. Though this was always a part of my nature, I didn’t know what exactly it was though I had been called both ‘cheap’ and ‘frugal’ in my lifetime. Minimalism is basically the practice of getting what you need, and not wastefully looking to consume more. I credit writer and YouTube content creator Aaron Clarey for the term because I first heard it from him – something he encourages – something which goes against the grain of most of our society. If you’re in the mood for a laugh, his video content on culture and economics are both very funny and insightful.
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“If you live right next to the metro, why would you own car?” I’m going to say something controversial here. I’ve gotten this reaction from a certain group of people. It’s the same group of people who are content to eat soup and sandwiches according to my Dad as described in my piece entitled; Challenging Misconceptions in Wealth, Income and Privilege. I’ve gotten the ‘side-eye’ from another group of people, and for the single guys reading this, I’ll just say that many ladies frown upon a man who doesn’t own a car. Interestingly the other more important aspects I described above usually don’t come up in conversations about why I don’t own one.
I’ve also been ‘clowned’ about it in some instances. When you’re doing something like this, knowing in your heart why you’re doing it, and keeping your goals in mind is very, very critical when someone challenges you. Oh, and if you’ve thought it out and it’s working, don’t argue with anyone over it. It’s not worth it. This is an instance where even in adulthood, being the leader of your own life and not caving into peer pressure is key.
How does one get by without owning a car? Well again it helps to live right next door to a metro system. My first year of college at SUNY Brockport, I was amazed by the number of classmates from New York City who didn’t have their driver’s licenses. Where they were from, they just didn’t need them and openly admitted that.
Once I got rid of my car, I now noticed that there were quite a few other people in the Washington, DC metro area using “Zipcars”. Then within the last couple of years ‘ride share’ programs and ‘apps’ like “Uber” and “Lyft” became prevalent. Admittedly if you need to go to an area that’s further out, it usually requires some planning – maybe using a Zipcar, or maybe just renting one, but again you must keep your overarching goals in mind.
Again, it’s a tradeoff. There’s a definite convenience to getting in your car whenever you want to and zipping off some place, and that’s what you’re paying for when you own one unless of course it’s giving you some sort of social prestige or personal confidence boost. How much is that convenience worth to you?
So in summary, again I’m not telling anyone what they should do with their lives. I chose to make a tradeoff (a car and certain people) with specific goals in mind. Now that I had a grasp on money and finance as described above, my new ‘drivers’ (no pun intended) were:
• To become ‘financially peaceful’ and to build wealth;
• To be able to handle all the costs associated with homeownership – something I stumbled into which came with its own set of financial costs and surprises and;
• To maximize my cashflow so that I could save, invest and to be able to give.
In terms of giving, we often think about giving to our churches and alma maters but sometimes there are other needs. A fellow alumnus from Johnson C. Smith University recently needed to raise money to buy winter clothes for the students at his school in Grand Rapids, MI. Because of some of the personal choices I’d made, I was easily able to support his effort and help the kids in his community stay warm this winter.
Again, major components to all of this are long-term thought, and budgeting which I’m going to cover shortly in its own blog post. Another important piece is being a secure individual, following the beat of your own drummer and not being peer pressured into keeping up with other people’s thoughts of what’s acceptable for your life. The other piece is being malleable and willing to continue to learn more information and applying it to your life.
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I’m going to end this post with some quotes. The opening quote for this piece is from the popular and outspoken sports talk show host Colin Cowherd who weaves life parables into his sports commentary. This one involves our personal drivers and motivations. “My investing advice to the average individual, is don’t be average,” is a quote that has stayed with me from Robert Kiyosaki’s books. It involves thinking outside of the box and doing the opposite of the crowd.
Dave Ramsey’s famous quote is, “We’re going to live like no one else, so later we can live like no one else!” It involves making temporary sacrifices for greater gains later. Finally, one of the content creators on a YouTube show I regularly watch often says to, “Keep your savings high, and your overhead low!” I think you get the picture. What are your motivations and where are trying to go in your life?
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My personal finances crashed and hit rock bottom right around 2011 – two years into my federal science career. I started my career with very little savings based upon my educational path and life circumstances. I was still a new homeowner and just paid out my entire $8,500 “
Yes, it was strange at first not having a car in my parking space and not being able to jump in a vehicle and drive off whenever I wanted to. As I describe later though I adjusted. It was a ‘trade off’ as the great 
Once I got rid of my car, I now noticed that there were quite a few other people in the Washington, DC metro area using “
I’m going to end this post with some quotes. The opening quote for this piece is from the popular and outspoken sports talk show host