It’s Time to Break Up with the Traditional School System

My blog focuses on General Education. Education is a critical part of all our lives. The reality though is that it is not a one size fits all thing. So students use non-traditional routes and take alternatives pathways. The following contributed post is entitled, It’s Time to Break Up with the Traditional School System.

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We were raised to believe there was only one way to get educated: go to school, sit in rows, memorize, test, graduate, repeat. For some, that worked just fine. But for many others, including late bloomers, independent thinkers, and neurodiverse learners, it didn’t. It left them feeling like square pegs in round holes, pushed through a system that wasn’t built for them.

But here’s the thing: it’s 2025, and the rules have changed. Education isn’t one-size-fits-all anymore, and for a growing number of people, that’s a very good thing. Whether you’re a parent rethinking your child’s future or an adult reconsidering your own, these alternative approaches might just be the fresh start you need.

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Boarding Schools: A Structured Path with Room to Grow

Boarding schools have often been misunderstood, either seen as elitist or as last resorts. But in reality, the right boarding school can be a lifeline for students who need structure, community, and space to thrive outside the limitations of traditional day schools.

These schools offer more than academics, they foster independence, personal responsibility, and deeper connections between students and teachers. For kids who are highly motivated, easily distracted at home, or simply need a fresh environment, boarding school can be transformative.

Of course, finding the right one is key. You want a school that understands today’s student, one that builds resilience, encourages critical thinking, and supports wellbeing. Institutions like KIS offer student-centered environments designed for a new generation of learners, blending strong academics with emotional support and global outlook.

Online Education: Learning on Your Terms

Not everyone learns best in a classroom. Not everyone can learn in a classroom. That’s where online education steps in, offering flexibility, accessibility, and the power to shape your learning around your life.

Whether it’s remote high school programs, virtual university degrees, or specialized platforms that teach everything from business writing to astrophysics, online education gives learners control. You can work at your own pace, revisit content as needed, and often explore subjects more deeply than a traditional class allows.

Going Back to School, When You’re Actually Ready

For some, school didn’t work out the first time around. Maybe life got in the way. Maybe you weren’t sure who you were or what you wanted. And maybe now, with more perspective, you’re ready to return, not to fix the past, but to build the future.

Going back to school as an adult brings a different kind of clarity. You choose the program because it matters to you. You study because you want to, not because someone told you to. Whether it’s community college, an evening course, or an online degree, returning to education later in life is often more empowering than doing it young and uncertain.

The Pick-and-Mix Approach to Lifelong Learning

What if you don’t want a full degree? What if you just want to learn Korean for fun, or get a cybersecurity certification to pivot careers?

The pick-and-mix approach is about adults selecting exactly what they want to learn, when they want to learn it. It’s efficient, targeted, and purpose-driven. And it challenges the outdated notion that education has to be a four-year program with a fixed curriculum.

It’s not about ticking boxes, it’s about curiosity, ambition, and self-development. And honestly, isn’t that what education should be all about?

Walking away from the traditional school model isn’t quitting, it’s choosing something better. Whether it’s boarding, online, delayed, or bite-sized, modern education is about choice. And for the first time in generations, that choice is finally ours to make.

Author: anwaryusef

Anwar Y. Dunbar is a Regulatory Scientist. Being a naturally curious person, he is also a student of all things. He earned his Ph.D. in Pharmacology from the University of Michigan and his Bachelor’s Degree in General Biology from Johnson C. Smith University (JCSU). Prior to starting the Big Words Blog Site, Anwar published and contributed to numerous research articles in competitive scientific journals reporting on his research from graduate school and postdoctoral years. After falling in love with writing, he contributed to the now defunct Examiner.com, and the Edvocate where he regularly wrote about: Education-related stories/topics, Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics (STEM), Financial Literacy; as well as conducted interviews with notable individuals such as actor and author Hill Harper. Having many influences, one of his most notable heroes is author, intellectual and speaker, Malcolm Gladwell, author of books including Outliers and David and Goliath. Anwar has his hands in many, many activities. In addition to writing, Anwar actively mentors youth, works to spread awareness of STEM careers, serves on the Board of Directors of the Friends of the David M. Brown Arlington Planetarium, serves as Treasurer for the JCSU Washington, DC Alumni Chapter, and is active in the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace Ministry at the Alfred Street Baptist Church. He also tutors in the subjects of biology, chemistry and physics. Along with his multi-talented older brother Amahl Dunbar (designer of the Big Words logos, inventor and a plethora of other things), Anwar is a “Fanboy” and really enjoys Science-Fiction and Superhero movies including but not restricted to Captain America Civil War, Batman vs. Superman: Dawn of Justice, and Prometheus. He is a proud native of Buffalo, NY.

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